undread | asa

Hmm. I'm not so sure. I wouldn't approach it recklessly. But if you come to find your partner is someone trustworthy...that's another matter.

Well... The problem is, you wouldn't really know until you know, right? And by then, it'll be too late to take it back.

I suppose not. But you could get a sense, talking to someone, and stop short of telling anyone you're uncertain of.