Sure. They can lead, I still don't intend to try and put myself in charge here. But that doesn't mean I can be dead weight just because I showed up late.
I don't think you're dead weight, I only mean it's not a bad thing to take a break. You can offer to help but you don't have to feel responsible. They've had nothing to do for weeks but figure these things out.
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[ but have you considered... no... ]
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[so very little responsibility, which suits her fine.]