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[personal profile] killies 2024-06-12 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
[ oh no ]

I mean... It probably varies from group to group though.
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[personal profile] killies 2024-06-12 01:11 am (UTC)(link)
But how you feel won't change. And you can only deal with it properly if you talk it through.

Otherwise you're all just going to be upset by yourselves.
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[personal profile] killies 2024-06-12 08:50 am (UTC)(link)
... It's not like it's perfect. But it is better.
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[personal profile] killies 2024-06-12 10:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Disagreements will still happen... Even if you talk it out right away, people disagree and feel strongly about things.

Maybe it would be better if the two of you talked it out without the others? But it's hard to talk to someone who's too angry. [ like she's not quite dumb enough to just assume every problem can be worked through. sometimes they probably just. can't? ]
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[personal profile] killies 2024-06-13 07:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't blame you. It's annoying having people mad at you all the time whether you're making the right call or not.
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[personal profile] killies 2024-06-14 01:58 am (UTC)(link)
[ can't relate. ]

If you think so.